MDS-02 What does the label “gamer” bring to mind when you hear/read someone us it to describe a person?
What does the group term “gamers” bring to mind, and how does it make you feel?
I think my answer to these two questions overlaps quite a bit, so, I will say that I mostly have extremely negative associations, at least, as far as there being a difference between saying Gamer or Gamers, as opposed to when someone is just describing someone who plays games.
As bizarre as it sounds to say now, Gamergate was a defining moment in a swelling of public identification of a certain age demographic of modern netbound English speakers (if not other global communities, I’m sure there are others, but that’s what I know about for sure) with far right ideology. I don’t think it was (or is) fashionable to be openly far right, but I think it’s hard to deny that there were (and are) a relatively dedicated subculture of very loud people who identified with two main things, playing videogames, and openly espousing fascist ideology. Even more frustrating, from my perspective, scant little was done (or is being done) to really actually deal with this issue in a proactive manner. It’s like we have sent the canaries into the mine shafts, none of which returned, and upon asking for help, the only support we seem to get is more canaries. Well, that’s liberalism for you.
So, for better or worse, yes, I think that’s more what a Gamer is, than anything, for better or worse (let’s be real, mostly worse).
I think it also kind of speaks to a starvation for some sort of community or shared cultural experience or sense of belonging and history. Culturally, socially, mayhaps even spiritually if that has any meaning to you, a lot of the English speaking world is in a state one could say is totally emaciated. It’s certainly not shocking that no small amount of people would try and construct an identity around a commodity based hobby, especially one as stimulating and exciting (as well as manipulative and exploitative from a commodity perspective) as videogames. On one hand I can sympathize with wanting something you’re so bereft of, but on the other, I dunno. It’s weird and I’ve never identified with it even as much as I have loved playing videogames and talking about videogames for going on 30 years now.
When and how do you use the word gamer/gamers to describe others? Do you describe yourself as a gamer, or do you use a different term?
Mostly when positively dripping with irony.
I think it’s funny to call people gamers when they most certainly are not gamers, even if I don’t actually do that, I just make jokes about it. As in:
Me, barging into the packed courthouse, as the news cameras swivel toward me: Where the gamers at
I like to tell my partner that they’re a gamer simply because they have played a videogame before. For no reason. It doesn’t even bother them like in a teasing way. I just think it’s funny. You got to amuse yourself, in life. I call my dogs gamers. I very often say that my one dog is a gamer girl.
But also, with friends who I know play games or who I have played games with, we will call each other “gamer.”
At first it was mostly ironically, sorta like, ha ha he he, we’re saying “gamer” but we’re not like those other gamers. Then it sort of became like a proxy for “friend,” just like, what the fuck is up gamer?
Eventually at some point I got kind of tired of the whole self deprecating nihilistic ironic detachment on the internet, and so eventually, I started to sort of subvert the meaning of what a gamer was, at least just as I was letting my cool brain leak out all of the fun thoughts I have out on to the internet, so, at least around me and my friends.
So I would say things like, I dunno,
(I have some fear about posting this and coming across poorly, but it somehow felt important.)
Don’t worry, we’re true gamers here, we support and uplift each other, that’s what real gamers do
This is more for my own personal amusement, even if I mean it totally sincerely. But, you know.